This summer I had the opportunity to go on a Carnival cruise with a group of pastors who are part of the same association. It was a fun and relaxing trip, and one that gave us the opportunity to talk through some issues our churches are facing. It also reminded me of a very important lesson many churches need to learn: Decide who you’re trying to reach.
It was apparent from the first day that Carnival had yet to decide this, and because of that, the ship felt like it had multiple personalities.
On one hand, they tried to portray a luxurious feel.
On another, they tried to portray they were family friendly.
And another, weird third hand they portrayed a party atmosphere, which in my opinion was probably what they really were. They just weren’t quite ready to fully admit it.
Here are a few observations that led me to this conclusion.
The ship I was on had a very fancy dining room called The Monet. During dinner the first night, a man dressed as a pirate came around to each table, and you were required to have your picture taken with him holding a knife to your throat. To make matters worse, it wasn’t even a good-looking pirate costume.
The ship did have a play area for kids on one of the tops decks, but the toys looked to have been thrown together by going to random yard sales. There was no rhyme or reason to it, and I never saw anyone on staff tending to it or cleaning the toys.
They did have a slide on one of the main decks, which was an attraction for kids, but it also overlooked the party pool.
They had an art gallery next to the arcade and casino.
I could go on and on.
In their attempt to appeal to everyone, they missed their opportunity to be great for someone.
Nothing they did was bad, but nothing they did was extraordinary either.
In the end, I’m guessing everyone left with just an ok experience.
So, what does this have to do with your church? Everything.
Far too many churches try to be all things to all people and end up being just ok at everything.
Here’s the problem with that. No one talks about ok. No one thinks about ok. And no one invites his or her friends to experience ok.
So, decide who you want to reach.
If it’s young families, then make sure your kid’s ministry is extraordinary.
If it’s creatives, make sure your worship service is on point.
If it’s retired people, make sure your senior ministry is going strong and you sing every hymn in the book.
Just whatever you do, don’t settle for ok. Ok?
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