Should Church be Fun?

That’s the question we’re trying to answer today, and I’m honestly not sure. I certainly don’t think it should be boring, which is what a lot of churches are. But should it be fun? And is it wrong for church to be fun? I feel like sometimes churches are judged for being fun, like it’s a sin to have fun in church. But perhaps they’re just mad because their church isn’t fun. Maybe it would help if we look at some advantages of being fun.

  1. People want to be a part of something fun. If you ask people if they’d rather go to the dentist or to the movies, 99% of them are going to pick the movies. Why? Because it’s more fun. You go to the dentist out of necessity. You go to the movies because you enjoy it. Do people enjoy your church, or are they going out of necessity?
  2. Fun can change someone’s day. People often walk into our churches weighed down by burdens, guilt, and heartbreak. Often they need someone to talk to and a shoulder to cry on, but sometimes I think the best medicine for them is to experience something fun. Do people walk out of your church with a better attitude than when they walked in?
  3. Fun is easy to measure. The measure of fun is found on the faces of those in your service each week. How many smiles do you see each week? How often are you hearing laughter? Not every sermon you preach is going to be fun, but every sermon that points towards Jesus leads us to joy.
  1. Fun is contagious. There are certain people who are just fun to be around. Then, there are certain people that you try to avoid each week. Fun attracts others. That’s why the best leaders are often the people who know how to have the most fun.

By just looking at the list above, I can see there are definite advantages for a church that chooses to be fun. And I don’t think there’s anything wrong with that. I’m glad I’m a part of a church that’s fun.

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Every Church Welcome Needs these Five Elements

Hi, welcome to the blog. My, that’s some weather we’ve been having, isn’t it? This is unfortunately how many churches welcome people to church. It doesn’t connect with people. It doesn’t communicate value, and it’s not even that welcoming. We have to do better than that.

Now, for those not quite familiar with the terminology, the church welcome is the critical time that someone from church welcomes people, mainly the guests, to the service.

I like to place the welcome right after the first worship song. This gives time for the people who’ve been hanging out in the lobby and the guests who are arriving a little late to find a seat.

I believe there are five elements to a great welcome, but maybe more important than those five is the person who is delivering the welcome. You have to make sure that person is a good speaker, they’re comfortable on stage, and they’re likable.

I’d prefer it not be the lead pastor because they’re the most likely to get caught in a conversation before service, or they may still need time to look over their notes. Plus, it’s just nice to have another person on stage people can connect with.

Once you’ve found that person, you need to ask them to do these five things during the welcome.

  1. Introduce yourself. Each and every week, you need to introduce yourself. Because each and every week we’re expecting guests to show up, and they may not know you.
  2. Welcome guests. You want to recognize guests every week. Not by making them stand up or raise their hand, just by saying, “If you’re new here, welcome. We’re glad you came.” Then if you use a connection card, you want to ask them to fill out the card and turn it in at the end of service.
  3. Share Vision. This is where you remind everyone of why your church exists. Try to share a story about how the church is changing lives.
  4. Invite them to connect. This could be to an event you have coming up, to a small group, or to a serving role. Statistics are very clear. If you don’t get people engaged in what you’re doing, then more than likely they won’t stay at your church.
  5. Pray. End the welcome by praying over the rest of the service.

It’s a simple as that. Here’s what mine would look like.

Hey, welcome to Strong Tower Church. My name is Travis. I’m one of the pastors here, and from everyone on staff and all our wonderful volunteers, we want to say we’re honored that you’re here today. If this is your first time with us, we hope we make you feel at home. When you came in, you were handed a connection card, and we’d love for you to fill that out with as much information as you’re comfortable with sharing. We promise we’re not going to show up at your house or anything like that. We would just like to send you a thank you card, and we have a free gift for you if you’ll take your card to our welcome center after service. This week I came across this post on Facebook from someone who recently started attending our church, and I wanted to share it with you. It says, ‘I think I’ve finally found a home church. From the moment I stepped onto the property, I’ve never felt so welcomed. It truly does feel like family. I can’t wait to go back on Sunday.’ Posts like this are why we exist. Our church exists to share the love of Jesus with everyone, so that everyone falls in love with Him. If this sounds like something you would like to be a part of, we’re having a pastor’s lunch right after service today, and we would love to talk with you about how you can get more involved. Thanks again for being here. Would you join me in praying over the rest of our service?

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Seven Ways You Can Better Connect with Young Adults

You don’t have to visit too many small town churches to figure out they’re not doing a great job of reaching younger people. Oh sure, if you asked them, they would say they have a desire to see their kids and grandkids in church, but for the most part they’re not willing to make the changes necessary to connect with young adults. When this is the case, it’s only a matter of time before the church closes its doors.

Hopefully, you’ve realized that by now, which is why you’re reading this post. If you want to connect with young adults, here are seven ideas to try.

  1. Change the music. I debated about putting this one first because I know some of you will stop reading at this point, but it has to be said. The majority of young adults are not enthusiastic about going to a church that plays mostly hymns. That’s why many churches have moved to a more contemporary or even modern style of worship music. If you want to reach young adults, you should be thinking of making the shift as well. That doesn’t mean you have to throw out the hymns altogether, but you do need to learn how to present them in a new way for a new generation.
  2. Be active on social media. If your church is located in the United States, you better believe people in your community are on social media. Your church should at least have its own Facebook page, and it would be a good idea for you to have one as well. Most people will connect online before they decide to visit the church in person.
  3. Keep you website clean and up to date. There are few things worse than visiting a church website and finding out it’s not been updated in years. If you have a calendar, keep it updated. If you have photos, make sure you change them out every few months. If you have a website but you’re not sure where to start, you can find out more info in this post.
  1. Have young adults volunteering in first impressions. Hopefully, your church has a first impressions team, those people in the parking lot and at the doors greeting people. Make sure you have some young adults in those positions. Young adults are more likely to connect to your church if they see other people in their age range and stage of life.
  1. Make kid’s ministry a top priority. It’s very unlikely a family will stay at your church if you don’t have a good kid’s ministry. Parents these days tailor almost everything around their kids, so you better find a way to meet their expectations. Find out the three most important pieces of the kid’s ministry puzzle here.
  1. Lose the suit and tie. Most young adults don’t even own a suit and tie anymore, so why are you still wearing one? One of the most impactful changes the church I serve ever made was our pastor’s decision to dress more casual. It makes you more comfortable as well as your guests.
  1. Update your facility. I’m not talking about major changes because I know most of you can’t afford that. But, adding a new coat of paint shouldn’t break the bank. Think of ways you can improve the look of your building, and if you’re really brave, find a way to replace those pews with chairs.

That’s my list, but I’d love to hear what’s working at your church. Leave a comment, and let me know what your church is doing to reach younger adults. Also, would you be so kind to share this link with another pastor or church leader? My goal is to help small town churches reach their potential, and you sharing this article helps me accomplish that.